Please Help, Need Expert Opinion

[AfraidScared]

I am married male, straight, and 30 years old.
I dont know why but I stepped into a Asian palour and got a full body massage that ended with her giving me a handjob till I ejaculated.
She didnt give oral, and was also fully clothed.
I am scared cause I dont know her hiv status and she spoke very poor english.  She cleaned me off down there with what I thought was a clean towel, cant confirm.  
What are the risks?  What should I be worried about?  I took a HIV test at day 4 which was NEG, I know it is inside the window period.  She could have cuts on her hand but I didnt see any blood on my penis.
I cant sleep, cant focus.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Last answer. Of course false positve happen, that is the reason I mentioned them. Also as I mentioned, they are rare.

This ends this thread. Further questions will be deleted without comment.  EWH

[alienshadow]

Yes false positives happen... But guess what even if it did happen you still would not have HIV.. You never had a risk.. Like Dr. Hook said put your money in a pile and burn it... Get your anxiety issues figured out this is getting out of hand.....

[AfraidScared]

I really appreicate your response.   I really do.  I just need a test to show me my status to move on.  Do false positives happen?  It was with Lab Corb.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I have nothing to say.  You did not need test so now you have gotten a test you did not need.  The test will either be negative or give a falsely postive result (this is unlikely).  If this benifits your peace of mind so be it.  On the other hand, you could light your money on fire and get equal benefit.  EWH

[AfraidScared]

Can you please answer sir?

[AfraidScared]

Sorry but I got a HIV PCR test yesterday.  I couldnt sleep and was not thinking.  I just needed somethign firm to give me the answer.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I will not repeat myself.  Further repetitive questions will be deleted without comment.  EWH

[AfraidScared]

Last question please.

I am consumed by this I know but it's serious stuff.

I am going to bring this girl a clearview HIV test to take......if it's NEG I will feel a lot better.

But if it's positive you are saying no factor in my handjob even if I am not circumcised?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

No, it doesn't matter.  

Please, one last time- NO RISK!!!

Time for this thread to end.  EWH

[AfraidScared]

So doesn't matter if she had HIV or both us had cuts
Cuts and puncture wounds on my penis , her hand?

Thank you so much for the follow up.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Yes, you can have sex with your wife.  No risk.  EWH

[AfraidScared]

I don't remembrer anything else but I do know there was no oral and her cloths stayed on.
I can have sex with Mmy wife?

[AfraidScared]

So doesn't matter if she had HIV or both us had cuts on my penis , her hand?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum.  I'll try to help. The exposure you describe was absolutely no risk for acquistion of HIV or for that matter, any other STD.  HIV is spread through penetrative genital or ano-genital sex.  It is not spread through oral sex an is certainly not sprea through receipt of masturbation.  No one has EVER gotten HIV from receipt of masturbation.  You do not need testing.  

I hope my comments provide you with peace of mind.  EWH

[AfraidScared]

I do not WAnt to pass anything to my wife and kids. ALso need to know when to take a test if needed.