Dear Doctor,
First, let me thank you for all your help in this wonderful forum. Two days ago, I had an encounter that is making me a bit worried and I was hoping that you could help me with. This involved mainly kissing so I assumed it was perfectly safe. However, after coming home, I noticed a big bruise on my neck where at some places the top layer of skin was peeled although the inner layer was intact and no blood was present. Additionally, where he bit my nipples, there was a very small cut (1mm by 3-4mm) that had some scab on it. The cut seemed to be healed by the time I got home and during the encounter I did not notice any bleeding from either myself for him. Based on the suggestions in the community forum, I tend to believe that this encounter did not involve significant risk for HIV transmission, however, to ensure that I can move on, I have two questions that hopefully you can answer,
1- If the cut on my nipple was fresh and it was due to my partner's biting, what is the risk of HIV transmission (if he is assumed to be positive)? In case he had a minor bleeding in his mouth (although I didn't notice/taste any blood during kissing).
2- As a general question, both for me and for other people that read the post, under what conditions, HIV can transmit due to biting (assuming an HIV positive partner)? I mean with respect to bite size, amount of bleeding from the cut and also amount of blood in his mouth?
Again, I don't assume that there is a significant risk in my case, however, in order to fully move on, I just want your medical opinion on this issue. Finally, do you recommend testing at 6 weeks or should I just do it for my own peace of mind.
Thanks.