Welcome to the forum. Thanks for carefully reviewing other questions similar to yours. You have correctly analyzed your risks and my replies.
The main thing I would add, which you probably saw elsewhere but don't mention, is that it's generally believed that most escorts (expensive female CSWs by appointment) are at low risk for HIV and other STDs, owing to consistent condom use, awareness of risks, frequent testing, and often careful selection of their clients. And that often their main clients are themselves at low risk, often monogamous -- i.e. men like you.
The official data for the oral fluids HIV test show similar performance of other antibody tests, approaching 100% reliability by 6-8 weeks. However, a couple of research studies suggest that's optimistic and that the figures you quote may be more reflective of reality. But it's an open question -- so to err on the side of caution, we recommend that only blood tests be used for testing earlier than 3 months after an exposure of concern. Anyway, your 6 week result probably is indeed at least 90% sensitive, perhaps higher.
I would modify your statistical calculation. I would start with 1 in 1,000 chance your partner had HIV (or 1 in 100, if you want to be conservative) -- so that even without a condom, it would calculate as 1 chance in 2 million (or maybe 1 in 200,000) you were infected. Second, I would assume 99-100% condom effectiveness. The concept of "use effectiveness" versus biological effectiveness of condoms enters in. The first takes into account that condoms sometimes break or are not properly used. In other words, over time, someone who relies exclusively on condoms to prevent HIV (or pregnancy, other STDs, etc) probably reduces his chance by 95%. However, if a condom is properly used and does not rupture, then biological effectiveness -- close to 100%, since HIV cannot pass through intact latex or polyurethane -- is the proper value to use.
Based on the preceding calculation, I agree with your analysis of negative predictive value. But as just discussed, it's probably even better than the figures you cite.
Finally, I agree exactly with your concluding statement -- which is why Dr. Hook and I often go through this sort of statistical analysis for questioners who haven't done it on their own, as you did. For both you and other readers, here's another thread that discusses the importance of interpreting test results not strictly on test peformance, but in light of the prior probability of catching HIV:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1596259
I hope these comments have further boosted your confidence that you were at little risk of HIV and that you were not infected. Best wishes--
HHH, MD