4-6 weeks, depending on the specific test you have. See the thread below:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1704700
Thanks for the reply. When is the earliest i can get tested?
Welcome to the forum and thanks for your question. I confirm the accurate replies you had on the community forum.
Thailand is one of the world's major success stories in HIV prevention. The rates of HIV in sex workers (probably including transsexuals) is now very low -- so it is statistically unlikely your partner was infected. Even if she was, th exposures described carried little or no risk of HIV. To your specific questions:
1) Oral sex carries no measurable risk of HIV even when entirely unprotected. Certainly there is no risk from applying a condom with the moutn
2,5) Cuts are sealed from HIV transmission within minutes or a few hours. Probably nobody has ever caught HIV by fingering or hand-genital contact, even with cuts on the fingers. No risk.
3) HIV is not transmitted by hand-genital contact.
4) I don't understand "neo vaginal". But HIV is not sexually transmitted unless a bare penis (no condom) enters another person's vagina, rectum, or (mabye very rarely) mouth.
6) Those symptoms are not suggestive of HIV.
7) From a risk standpoint, you do not need HIV testing. But of course you are free to do so if my advice doesn't resolve your concerns and you would feel better having an HIV test. If I were in your situation, I wouldn't do it (and I would continue unprotected sex with my wife with no fear of infecting her).
I hope this has helped. Best wishes-- HHH, MD