You are a forum regular, with two previous questions that imply unreasonable concern about HIV. That means you probably have read the forum a lot and have seen the many statements that no medications or illnesses have any effect on reliability of timing of HIV test results, with the possible exception of terminal illnesses and potent chemotherapy or immunosuppressive drugs -- and even those are just theoretical, with few if any known cases. Mumps vaccine or infection with mumps are no different; they will not affect HIV test results. The answer to question 3 is no. (You don't need a 12 week test, by the way.)
I suggest you educate yourself about HIV and stop worrying about it so much, especially given your essentially zero risk sexual lifestyle -- based not only on what you say here, but in your two previous questions on this forum, the last of which (November 2008) apparently concerned the same low risk exposure you mention here. Please also note the MedHelp policy that sets a limit of 2 questions every 6 months on the moderated forums (see Terms and Conditions).
HHH, MD