Hello Doctors,
First of all, I'd like to thank you for your time and generous feedback which we all find so empowering and useful. I have posted once before over a year ago, and I took your advice and have been great-- I even went ahead and became an HIV-prevention counselor at my local clinic in the San Francisco Bay Area. However, to no avail, when it comes to my own health, it's hard to be objective.
A few hours ago, I met up with someone-- to be honest, I'm not sure of his status, but we did speak about HIV and he was extremely adamant about safe sex and being negative. For an etching reason I trust his disclosure to me as being negative. We kissed and I sucked him off. I have a canker sore in my mouth but he did not precum at all. If he did, it was probably so minuscule that it wouldn't have mattered... (no taste, no nothing. and he even said he doesn't precum). 1) This was low-risk, correct? Or what would you say is the risk?
However, this leads me to my ultimate point.. the one that's causing me a little anxiety. He fingered me and we started humping. For a bulk of the time, he had his penis between my butt cheeks and the frot-ing became intense. If there was any precum, I'm sure it would have landed inside my hole, but there was no direct penetration... Take frotting loosely though... we are human and are prone to human mistakes... so maybe at one point his penis did semi enter me... but I didn't feel penetration.
I was wondering what you think my risks are for the two exposures I listed above (1-oral with canker and 2-frottage). Also, if he were to have cum on my chest and I had pimples, that wouldn't pose a transmission risk, right? Do you recommend I get PEP? Or are these (now 3) exposures pretty unlikely for me to contract the virus?
Once again doctor, thank you so much for making this site available for us all. It is truly an amazing resource and I appreciate the empowerment and the time you spend answering all of these questions.