i recently posted on another forum, but would like to hear from you. i recently had a gay massage in thailand. whilst im aware that the stats say i will be fine (there was NO anal sex and NO oral sex either protected or unprotected) i still cant help worrying that perhaps there is a possibility and my mind is running wild. the venue was very clean and both the worker and myself showered. the massage commenced, after about 5 minutes the worker rimmed me for a period of about 2 mins, then fingered me for a minute, followed by some frottage that involved pressing his testicles against my anus area, but im sure no penetration. Then the worker had to go to the toilet, however i did hear him wash his hands. he came back and continued the massage. soon after he commenced fingering me quite fast and there was a lot of rubbing against each other and a little kissing and we mutually masturbated. there was no anal sex or even oral however my concerns lie with;
-fingering. im aware the risk is extremely low but what if there was a bit of pre-*** on his fingers or even a bit of *** after we masturbated (pretty sure the fingering stopped as soon as he cummed anyway, but cant exactly remember) i did not see any wounds or marks on his fingers that i can recall
-when we mutually masturbated, he did come over my chest some landed on my genital area. however im positive none landed near the anus or urethra. if it did land on the urethra is there a risk?
-also as it was in thailand is my risk greater? i have heard 1 in 4 people in the sex industry in pattaya are HIV positive?
soon after climax we cleaned up, i showered and left. i believe my risk is zero, and never done this sort of thing before. should i get tested, most advise is telling me testing is not even neccesary. it was 12 days ago now and i have not had any other signs of STDS (ie from the rimming). Besides putting my mind at rest, do i need to have a HIV test at all given there was no oral or anal intercourse?