Please consult me again

[pavlik71]

Dear Doctor,

Referring to my previous post (http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/need-you-reassurance/show/1616984#post_7352040) I would like to ask you a new question.

A few days ago I happened to have a sexual contact again with a man I met in one of the Dutch gay forum. He masturbated me in his car. I was wearing a condom. No other sexual exposure. I did not touch his genitals, maybe accidently when I touched his legs. Do I understand correctly that it was no risk (hiv and other std's) exposure?

The guy looked somehow strange. I cannot explain why, it is just a feeling... For example he did not have an erection. Then I could not understand what a fun was for him....  What if he wanted to infect me porously and used a needle for this, would I notice it? I guess I sound over concern, sorry for this strange question. I would appreciate your answer.

Thank you,
Pavel

[pavlik71]

Dear Doctor,
You deleted my question, but I am most concerned now about my wife and her pregnancy. Is there any tiny risk? If needed I can pay again for your advise.
Sincerely

[pavlik71]

Dear Doctor Hook,

I hope you can answer this question about the symptoms I have. I would never come back to this thread, but the symptoms I have now worry me.

It is the 6th week from the encounter I mentioned in this thread. Since four days I have a bit of sore throat.  No fever. No running nose, but some uncomfortable nasal discharge I feel in my nose.  These are quite unusual symptoms; normally if I catch cold I have much more pain in my throat and running nose after.  

Today I had diarrhea one time. Earlier last week I also had diarrhea once. The frequency is also quite unusual for me. And I normally have none when I catch cold.  

Do you think that I need to test for HIV?

I beg you not to delete this question but instead to give it a serious consideration. My wife thinks that she is pregnant now (all tests show that but we are waiting for the ultrasound test)  and the pregnancy happened AFTER the incident. I trusted you and other people on this site who told me that I had nothing to worry and could sleep with my wife.  

Sincerely

[pavlik71]

Dear Doctor, would you be so kind to reply?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Again, no, you would know it if you were stuck with a needle, even if it occurred during an orgasm.  

This will end this thread. there will be no further answers to these anxiety-driven questions.  EWH

[pavlik71]

Dear Doctor,

If I may the last question in this thread. Could the moment of orgazm screen the pain of the needle stick?  

I will try to calm myself down. Again, thank you for your patience and time.
Regards

[Edward W Hook, MD]

No, nothing you have mentioned indicates that you are at risk for HIV. You need to stop worrying. EWH

[pavlik71]

Thank you Doctor,
Indeed, I have not noticed an injection... I guess it is my imagination because of the fears. Is there any other way the hiv might have been transmitted?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome back to the Forum.  There are no STDs, including HIV which are transmitted by masturbation, with or without a condom on.  The exposure that you describe did not put you at risk.  There is no need for concern and no need for testing.

Your fears about this person purposefully infecting you with a needle are groundless.  If this person had stuck you with a needle, you would know it.  

To summarize, you have no reason to worry. EWH

[pavlik71]

Sorry, I mean purposely not porously.