This past weekend I engaged in mutual masturbation with two different men (I am also a man). During both encounters there was no oral to genital or genital to genital contact (no oral/anal sex or even rubbing our genitals together). However, at times in both encounters my sexual partner would touch his own genitals, then touch my genitals, and then back to touching my genitals. I probably also did this as well in both encounters (touched his genitals, touched my genitals, and then touched his genitals). In the second encounter, the other guys also used his own spit as lubricant on my genitals before I could object to it. I know that both of these individuals are pretty sexually active. Now two days after the encounter (yesterday) I woke up with a fever, headache, tender glans in my neck, sore throat, and strange back pain, which I have convinced myself is some sort of herpes prodrome. However, I do not have any sores/blisters on my genitals (at least as of yet). I was wondering how worried should I be about these two sexual encounters as far as genital herpes (I kissed both individuals during the encounter and therefore I know I am at risk for oral herpes). I have been previously tested for HSV (using IGG testing) and I am negative for both HSV 1 and 2. How concerned should I be about this encounter? I am really freaking out at this point! I have seen different information on the internet about the risk mutual masturbation poses (Possible to spread herpes through mutual masturbation, but maybe under reported because other higher risk sexual acts occurred along with mutual masturbation (oral/vaginal/anal sex)). Thanks so much for your help!