I am sorry for the new screw name. I can not remember the password for the original.
I am done here. Thanks.
Thank you Terri. I am seeking counseling for my marriage issue. I have made great strides in understanding and correcting my own issues as well as those in my marriage.
Returning to physical relations is important and my questions here are based on my desire to do that with reasonable confidence of not harming my wife. I want this to work for the sake of her and my children. I definitely want to continue as a family.
Thank you.
No. It means nothing. There is normal variability in the levels of the test, because each batch of tests is compared to a control positive, which varies with each test. So variability means nothing in this case.
I'm not clear what the Biokit would add here. However, if you did one, and it was negative, that would be further information that you are likely not infected.
There is an excellent chance, based on these numbers, that you are not infected with herpes.
However, I think you are so focused on herpes right now that you are failing to look at the elephant in the room: why did you stray from your marriage four times? In my experience, feeling guilty and scared are not enough motivation to stay faithful, in the long run. I think exploring what happened here with a professional is a very important component for this process. I hope you will.
Terri
Hi Terri.
My 8 week results finally came in negative!!
HSV1- 0.227
HSV2-0.114
Does the slight rise in the HSV2 # mean anything?
Thanks!!
Terry,
I see you are only online a few times a day, so forgive my continued posting. When something pops to mind, it is probably best that I post it rather than wait to talk back and forth. That said.....in addition to the questions above, could you also let me know how a Biokit test might fit in here? Supposing I decide to test at 10 and 12 weeks, would Biokit be acceptable? Obviously, the 10 minute wait will take less mental toll than the 48 or more hours for the Kabcorp test.
Let me correct. Doing 10-12 weeks won't be "easy". I am truly in torment right now. The wages of my mistakes, of which I can still not believe.
I am not the proper father to my children nor the proper husband to my wife in this mental state. I have lost 2 months of my life.
People like me must drive you crazy. I am sorry.
Thank you Terry. I WANT to wait until 16 weeks, but think that is unrealistic, honestly. Could you take a guess at 10 and 12 week accuracy?
Also, if the chances are 1 in 1000 for infection (.1%), and I am now only about 20% unsure do to testing, would the updated risk be .1% x 20%=.02%? Does the math work that way?
I must get back to "normal life" which includes working on my marriage. The sooner the better. Knowing I'll never be 100% possitive, you are correct that I have to decide what level of risk I'm willing to accept. Any help you can give me with the numbers would be appreciated. I can do 10-12 weeks pretty easy.
Thanks
1. I think, given your test results so far, that infection is unlikely. Condoms reduce transmission of herpes by 30-50%, depending up the study you read, so they aren't perfect, though they are helpful. I personally would get a test at 16 weeks, given the high risk nature of your partners.
2. Your numbers are pretty low - I'm guessing against a false positive. I worry more about false positives in someone who has a previous high negative (which you don't) or someone who has never been tested before. In our clinic, only 5.5% of people who are tested end up with a false positive, so the chances are already pretty low, at least in our setting. False positives for HSV 2 are more common in someone who already has HSV 1, yes. There appears to be some risk of cross reaction there in some people.
The test results that you have at 8 weeks post exposure are probably 75-80% likely to stay that way. Maybe even a little more.
Different people are comfortable with different percentage risks. This is one you'll have to decide for yourself, I think.
Terri