I think he needs to *** differently. I know being a man cumming/orgasm is different depending on where. I have a high sex drive and cumming in different places helps with my sex drive. I think if anal, vaginal, & oral (must not be interrupted, catch & spit for oral) are part of your bedroom action it will fulfilling his sensations.
This is no problem at all. Just let him use your hand and then, you wont feel left out of the process.
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If he compulsively masturbates 5 times a day he could be sexually exhausted. Guys have a physical limit of how much abuse their privates can take.
If you have OCD then performing a compulsion is usually not enjoyable just necessary. (at least you think it's necessary.) I would believe him if he says that the masturbation is not tangled up with his sexual feelings for you. He is probably really embarassed about the whole thing.
But you should get him to talk to his therapist about this whole situation is my advice. Also maybe try to initiate sex early in the day if possible because by nighttime he might have worn himself out. He should be able to recover from the compulsion eventually, but you might have to work your sex life around it for a while. Good luck, too bad he isn't just a compulsive hand washer.
No Advise but i too have the same problem,, even masturbate After sex,, im searching for answeres myself
Really...no one has any advice?