She told me she was not pregnant? Is she telling the truth?

[ad4ljg]

Basically I had a one night stand with a woman on craigslist who told me she had been fixed.
We have unprotected sex, huge mistake I know I learned my lesson and will never do it again.

Anyways its been about 17-18 weeks and I just cant help but worry if she is pregnant.

I have asked her so many times and every time I ask she tells me she is not pregnant, no im not pregnant. Im fixed I cant have anymore kids, trust me if I was pregnant I would tell you, NO IM NOT PREGNANT!

I check her facebook often to make sure there isnt anything about any upcomming kids and there is absolutley nothing.

I even had a friend ask her if she ever wanted any more kids, she does not know that I know the friend that asked this question, She told my friend that she is fixed and cant have anymore. Note they did not even have sex and she told him that.

She is willing to even meet back up with me and take a pregnancy test as long as I buy it. Again we are at 18 weeks so I would assume she would be showing a little bit by now too if she was pregnant.

I am just so worried that for some reason she is hiding it from me and I will be surprised next spring by child support papers in the mail.

I just cant stop worrying about it.

[twins09356]

Just sign your rights away if so..

[JGF25]

The reality of this situation is that it is out of your control.  That is why it is bothering you.  If she were pregnant, the choice would be hers to have the baby or not.  You have to go by what she says and that is that she is not pregnant.  Stalking her is just feeding into your obsession about this.  The past is the past.  Take her answer and move on.  She has no reason to lie even if she was pregnant.  There is no difference if she told you now versus later therefore why would she lie?