I consulted with a plastic surgeon about having liposuction on my cheeks. He said that the problem was not excess fat in my cheeks but the alignment of my jaw and referred me to an oral surgeon.
My concern is that an oral surgeon will notice the erosion of enamel on the back of my teeth (my four center, front teeth are all yellowed - I've seen pictures and it's nasty), know that I have an eating disorder, and then not just refuse to do the surgery but also tell the plastic surgeon.
So: (1) do all dentists / oral surgeons know, based on this pattern of erosion, that it is caused by bulimia; (2) is there anything else that I could tell him caused this; (3) will he know whether I am still purging or if this happened in the past; (4) will he refuse to do cosmetic surgery if he knows I'm bulimic; and (5) can he tell the plastic surgeon without my consent?