Did u ever find any help my son is going thru this exact thing now
I just read your post about your 9 year old son and his sexual thoughts. My six year old is going through the same thing right now. He just came out with this all of a sudden a few days after my husband left for a month (military). He told me he was having these vivid sexual thoughts about a little girl that he went to school with, then he would have them about anyone he was thinking about boy or girl. I was completly shocked and felt sick to my stomache. My husband and I don't watch anything inaproret when our kids are around all they watch is Nick jr. He told me that some of his friends were talking about girlfriends and kissing and things like that not nothing in depth. I tryed to tell him that it is natural to want to kiss someone that he likes but he's to young to be acting on it. And as for the sexual stuff I told him these where things that Mommies and Daddies do when get married and love eachother very much. But these thoughts continue to haunt him and he crys about it because they won't get out of his head he says. He also has been obbsessing over bad words that he is thinking in his head and has to tell me everything little bad thing he is thinking. He will go off on the tangets where he just keeps telling me the same things over and over again, I call it word vomit because it doesn't stop.. then he askes me if i heard him, he counts how manytimes he thinks these thoughts and says these things. He had already been scheduled to see a neroulogist becuase he has been having these weird tics, and was diagnosed with a mild tic diorder. I told him about the bad word thoughts and he said that it is due to the tic disorder but now the sexual thoughts are coming out again. I don't know what to do. I don't allow him to play alone with his sister or other children, and when he has a bad dream and wants to come lay in my room i don't allow him to becuase i'm afraid of the thoughts that are going to go through his head...I'm at a loss and I don't know what to do. Please help
Thank you for your advice i am now in the process of getting him to a therapist and hopefull it will help.I wait in hope ....
I think you talking to a child's therapist would be a good idea, just to be sure you are handling it right. It's not unusual for a kid coming into puberty to have sexual thoughts, but to me it is unusual that he would have incestuous ones. Usually the rough-and-tumble of growing up with someone breeds an indifference to them as a sexual being. I am concerned that he is focusing on family members as an outlet. I'd ask a therapist (not just a doctor) about this particular thing, and maybe for some ways to address it.
Sounds like you need to drop the conversation as it is feeding on itself, and stop him being around any other young children who are allowed to see Porn,in fact speak to their parents ......