Hi there,
First thing first...I need help!!! I have two children, and from time to time both seem to have temper tantrums. Lately, my normally quiet natured, excellent student, nine yr old boy is having major melt downs. From playing rough with his dad and being told the game is over (after he gets a bit too rough) to being told he won't be allowed to watch any TV due to his behavior. Crying and laying on the floor to kicking and screaming, we are at the end of our rope trying to take things away from him as form of punishment. This usually only escalates the situation. When he refused to do his homework, I explained that I'd have to write a note to his teacher, explaining why homework was not complete, and the tantrum began. After a few hours of crying, screaming and moving furniture in front of his bedroom door, he finally calmed down and apologized.
It seems to be happening more and more frequently and other than explaining that I love him no matter what, but that this is not acceptable, I don't have a clue as to where to begin to deal with this. Today, due to his behavior, I kept him home from school, which only escalated once again. This behavior doesn't exist at school, he's very respectful and appreciative of school and friends and his teachers. How do I get through to him that this behavior isn't appropriate for home, or any other place either?
Thanks,
Angie