dating dad

[datingdad]

I am a divorced father of a 7yr old boy, I am the custodial parent and primary caregiver for my son.  My son has and always will be the priority in my life, however I have recently begun dating a woman. My son is having great difficulty accepting his dad dating. He is concerned that anyone I start dating,  might eventually marry me and she will move in.  My son is very attached to me and doesnt want to share me.  I cant be alone forever though?  Please help me with getting my son to accept this.

[specialmom]

I remember your story from before.  Dad------------  it is still too soon.  It has not been that long and he is a young child.  If you care to date------  get a babysitter for 3 to 4 hours and go out to dinner with your date but you don't have to involve your child.  He's telling you he isn't ready for that.  He's had a lot of turmoil for a kid and I think I would take his feelings seriously.  Just my opinion.  (answer from the last time you posted still stands>)

[mamabalas]

When you date the new woman, or women, how long are you waiting before introducing them to your son?  Also, if you have known them long enough and are comfortable, are these women ever spending time with your son?  A date can be taking your son to the park, beach, carnival.  When I got divorced, I wasn't sure how to proceed into the dating world with my son. (7years)  Well, I decided anyone who wanted to date me would have to "date" both of us.  I have met a wonderful man, and his idea and mine of a great date was to take my son to the park, or the carnival.  We obviously needed time just for eachother as well, but I knew he was good for me when he showed without question or judgement that he understood my son would always come first.   Now, the three of us are living together as a family and I am very happy.