I had my first two girls 16 months apart both c section. I didnt really think it was that bad. Seemed like I healed faster the second time. Of course for like 2 weeks u cant bend down to pick up your other baby but it wont be long! Good luck mama!
My son will be 18mths when this baby is born. I'm hoping that's old enough for me to sit down and cuddle him andnfor him to be a little bit independent so I don't have to pick him up. But like the lady above said, I recovered relatively well the first time and it was only about 2wks of no bending/picking up.