Emotional Mess

[Jrob0530]

So I have a friend that invited herself to visit and has been less then helpful. We are in our 30's and she will wake me up to tell me "She's cold and doesn't know how to go about closing the window", Calls me at work because she "can't reach my conditioner" and literally watched as someone else helped me dig out my car.
I had late patients so I called to ask if she would let the dog out her response "I don't do pets" WTF is she here for?
Last night hubby informed me he has to go back to base the day before Valentines Day so I'll be driving him to the airport Thursday morning and I'm devastated. He's not a total duche it's a meeting so he will be home in a week but i'm upset to be spending Valentines Day alone and 6 months pregnant. I'm a first time mom and I feel like nothing is fun and happy.
Sorry for the long post but I'm about to lose my mind.

[Jrob0530]

Thanx :'(
This pregnancy has been so emotionally hard I don't know if I can ever do it again even though he keeps saying "next time it will be easier"

[dueladent]

I'm so sorry :-(

[Jrob0530]

On the countdown to my guest leaving!.Just informed her it's non optional since the hospital called, my Grams is terminal and wants to spend her final days home.
This is just not my month......

[likklehev]

Tell her that she either needs to sort herself out or leave you shiuld be concentrating on looking after yourself not runjing around after someone whis being silly

[dueladent]

I hate to say this, but tell her that you want to be alone... I'm brutally honest when it comes to people that are annoying me, but I know others actually.like to keep their friends (helpful or not) ;)

About your husband... I'm sorry, I know how you feel... My husband had to work out of town for a month when I was pregnant with our first, and it broke my heart... Its a terrible feeling, but just remember, soon you guys will be the happiest family in the world <3 <3 <3

[Jrob0530]

Thanks lol he nicely tried to put her in her place this morning but it's his second shot and she seems to be oblivious to criticism.
On a good not she said she was meeting friends in the city so we dropped her off @ the train before work & told her we would not mind is she spent the night with other friends. She asked of we could drop her @ the train on Monday because she's decided to go home (Thank God!).

[Ohbebebaby]

Make her feel uncomfortable. I would do things that annoy her every day. Then she'll realize she has over stayed her welcome. If she's not part of the solution,  than she is a part of the problem.