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anxiety about being an "older" mother
Hi, I have only just found out I am pregnant and so very early stages. It will be my third but I am so worried about all the stories I am reading about the added risks/complications linked to being an older mum. I am only 37. Has anyone got some stories about themselves that everything has been ok.
I am 39 and turning 40 tommorow. I too am worried but I know I am in good hands with my doctor and age is just a number...don't read anything anymore...just relax and eat right, take care of yourself and be positive and positive things will happen. Best wishes!
U do ppl feel old n there upper. 30's? U r far from old!!!!! I'm 41 n due n August I thought I was old smh! Ur age doesn't define who u r or how u feel. Our bodies r made to have babies at any age. U shld feel good bout having that blessing and enjoy it.. U r only as old as u feel lol!
I'm 40 and 18 weeks pregnant on my first. I was so worried early on as risks are higher the older you are and I had a bad flu with soaring temperatures at 5weeks. I've also miscarried before.
I went to a private clinic to test for abnormalities. The test is called panorama and there is a similar one called harmony. They took a swab from my partner's cheek and took my blood. They isolate the baby's DNA from this information and can determine a lot of information to 99% accuracy. I was thrilled to learn I have less than 1:10,000 chance of having any of the abnormalities tested for. I also found out I'm having a boy. This can be done from 9 weeks and was very worth the money for the peace of mind it gave me.
I went to a private clinic to test for abnormalities. The test is called panorama and there is a similar one called harmony. They took a swab from my partner's cheek and took my blood. They isolate the baby's DNA from this information and can determine a lot of information to 99% accuracy. I was thrilled to learn I have less than 1:10,000 chance of having any of the abnormalities tested for. I also found out I'm having a boy. This can be done from 9 weeks and was very worth the money for the peace of mind it gave me.
I'm 36 I'll be 37 when I have my boy in 6 weeks I was Scared as well but genetic testing also put my mind at ease .. You'll be fine :)
I'm 44 and 6 months preggo. Super excited!! I was worried too but genetic testing put my mind at ease.
I'm 40 and will be 41 when my baby arrives. Like you, I am very nervous. I guess all we can do is to be positive and hope for the best. Hugs and happy Baby thoughts!
Am 39 due in September and will be 40 in December. Age is just number. I just pray for a healthy baby. Good luck ladies.
I'm 37 and due in less than 2 weeks. Risks have nothing to due with age. It's about the individual mother. You're not alone here.
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