My mother's day was a real depressing day. I don't know if it is just hormones or what but I felt like crying all day. My son woke up at 3am and I should just be glad I have my son to wake me up at 3am but I was doing the race for the cure in a few hours and wanted to collapse!! (walking, not running btw) Then we were supposed to take my mil out for dinner and it got changed to lunch. We meet at her house at 12 and now we are eating at their house but my fil is always a D*c* and lunch wasn't ready until 4pm. I hadn't eaten since 8am and at this point I am ready to throw up and my son didnt have lunch either and they are feeding him donuts!! There is nothing healthy to snack on and I want to cry. My MIL tells me to lay down, I don'twant to lay down, I wanted to eat 4 hrs ago!!! We eat and they made steamed clams in a bag w/ cooked carrots and corn...normally this is "ok" but it makes me sick to my stomache and I spend a good hour throwing up. I have to beg my husband to take me home and then I have wash to do and then.....my husband says "oh, happy mother's day...hope you don't mind we didnt' get you anything"......and so anyway off to bed I still feel like **** and my dh wants to bd!!!!!! I rolled over and just said good night!!! Normally my dh is pretty good at being considerate....I just don't know how to get out of this slump. I feel like I have been jaded. I am already thinking of what can I do next year to make it better...but should I have to plan my own mother's day?? And why should the MIL come first??? I have struggled for a long time to be a mom and think that I should have some time devoted to me!!! I want to spend the day w/ my kids and ENJOY myself on my terms. I feel a little selfish but I want to be. Besides, I don't think I will ever be that MOM or MIL that will do that to my daughter or DIL. Boohoo, I am trying to snap out of it but it's monday. Sorry, I guess I needed to vent.