I have posted 2 pics of Julia and Randy when they lived with me last year for 3 months, please take a look at them with their half brothers and my 16 year old daughter and I think you can see the love these children have for each other and why they need to stay together now that their mom has lost her rights to them Me and my DH and their half brothers are the only family they have, We will make this work!! thanks for all the nice things you guys posted and I do apreciate the honest advice from all.