Hi. Am in the same boat. To try again or not to try for no. 3.
Of course, it may not happen (considering how hard the last one was), and then the decision will not be in my hands.
I am considering trying again for a limited time and if it works great, and if not. well. also ok.
Children are a gift. Go for it!
Its not an easy decision coz our biological clocks are ticking so time is of essence. Reflect on it think, check with hubby, bf and think of why you want another one and whether you are up to diapers again. I struggled with having my third child coz I wanted other things in life besides another child. I had to give in to my hubby nagging and she is such a friend to me and oh I love her to bits.