fiance not ready?

[kate4212]

Im a little bit scared of if my fiance is fully ready for a baby yet. I am 35 weeks pregnant and he seems to be more interested with drinking with his buddies and having them over late than getting ready for the baby.. Im not too sure what to do about it. Im worried.. need some input. I dont want to feel like a brat telling him he cant be hanging with his friends because that is not it, I just dont think the drinking is very appropriate for right now.  

[tara_stjean]

You should sit him down and tell him your concerns. Ask him straight out how he feels about the baby and if he is scared or feels unprepared. If so just talk about it. Thats what i do with my boyfriend.

[Richardsfam]

My fiancé told me flat out he doesn't feel like his part starts until the baby is here. Mind you he has bern helping me out if the tub and cars for a few weeks. I honestly think tgat a man doesn't feel kike a father until baby is in his arms.. Hang in there..

[GoingSoulo]

That's the man who you are going to allow to raise yor child with you? Choice is yours.