new ideology

[LisaRG]

Hi Ladies,
This morning I decided not to POAS until 16 dpo if no AF.
I would rather wait until AF then see a BFN because then you get sooo disappointed, yet you still need to wait it out. UGH!
.  Its sort of like when you buy a lottery ticket.  You could possibly be a millionaire until they actually draw the numbers.  Once they draw the number either you definitely are rich - or your not.  No in between with fretful waiting and half hope, half disappointment.  And as long as you are in the waiting game, and waiting for them to draw the numbers ( that means totally giving up control ), you are still in the running and its still possible you may be rich!!

Probably sounds crazy.  I am 8 dpo with dizziness and headache and tired, probably just premenstrual.
Sorry, :)

[40smama]

I too would rather wait it out than see a BFN - when I had my IVF, I waited until the very last minute to do a HPT because I feared the result - good luck this cycle!!

[adgal]

I wish I could do that.  Not only would it have saved me a lot of distress, but a fair amount of money too!!  I hope its your month Lisa.  Hugs and take care!!

[PamelaBee]

LOL...I like you're new ideology!  I hope it's a BFP for you this time!