35 weeks pregnant

[mommy_1983]

well, in the begining of pregnancy I was diagnosed with Hypernemsis then hospitalized for 5 days at 8 weeks because of it.it stopped at 21 weeks. my doctor was worry because i was losing weight instead of gaining finally at 23 weeks i started to gian then stopped but i gained some weight they told at my last doctors appointment. i had it rough through this pregnacy at one point i was feeling really teird, had bad migraines, feeling dizzy alot, feeling like i was over heating almost ready to black out. at 30 weeks i was admitted to hospital for one night because of pre term labour the doctor gave me two shot of steriods in case i went into labour to mature the baby's lungs. i had to have fluids and antibotics through iv for one day and night. as i get closer to the end, i feel alot of pressure in my lower stomach and lower back. sometimes it feels like i need to have a bm but when i try to go i can't. the last few days, i've been leaking fluid alot, and going to bathroom every half an hour even if i don't drink any fluids. i've been trying a hot water bottle to help my back but pain comes and goes at awkward times. i try not to phone doctor or labour and delivery at hopspital because of all the times i've been in and out  of hospital with this pregnancy. they probley have gotten tierd of me  so that is why i turn to you for help and information what to do?  

[adgal]

This is not meant as criticism at all, however I strongly urge you to seek medical attention.  You sound overwhelmed, and your Dr. can refer you to a physcologist that can be of more help then any of us here can.  Please, for the health of you and your family, make an appointment first thing in the morning.  I truly wish you well.  

[Juliaschill]

Oh hun you sound so sad, I know things can get tough! I have 3 special needs boys at home and am 28 w. It is never better to just give up. and after you have this new baby your body will feel much better, then you can talk to your husband about inproving your life stlye. i know that with the way the world is today it is hard to get aheah. Just try to focus on the wonderful kids you have and just take it day by day or hour by hour if you need to. If you ever want to chat just let me know, Huggs Julia

[mommy_1983]

Hi thhis is Mommy_1983,
well I'm not leaking fluids as bad as before weekend. I'm just so tierd, my whole body aches mainly in my lower back. I'm still working full time until June 19th, and when I'm not at work I'm a full time mom of my son who will be 3 in October and my daugther who will be 2 in Septewmber then I'm expecting this baby girl July 11th .....if i can make it until then. it's so hard to try and rest when you have to go to work after work go home and clean up have supper done then bath the kids get them ready for bed and try to get them to sleep by a certain time. I call them my little hurricans .... i can have the house clean and it seems within 20 minutes at the most they can have the house a total mess like a hurrican had hit the house. I'm begining to worry about how I've been feeling as I get closer to the end of pregnancy... I don't know how I'm going to get through each day with 2 toddlers and a new born.. sometimes i just want to give up and tell my husband he can keep the kids and see how hard it really is to do everything on his own with out me there to help. I've been crying alot and things have really been bugging about the way we are living ..... me (26) and my husband (24 in july 19th) have been marruied 3 years May 14th and we've been living with his mother ever since in a small room and soon there is going to be 5 of us in a little room. well i guess i better sign off i keep going on and on about my sh*tty life....sorry about  that it was so nice of you to write back adgal
p.s
is it normal to cry and get mad so easy anbd just to walk out on everybody well i think of giving up on life would be easier

[adgal]

Wow, you have been through  a lot. Some of it sounds like the normal pregnancy stuff, although I know some is more serious.  I can tell you that if you are leaking fluid, you do need to see your Dr. quickly.  It's important.  Don't worry about what they think, the health of you and your baby is what matters. Good luck to you.