okay I am new to all of this,but I am worried.I am 31 years old and had a tubal after my last child was born in 2004 I had a c-section so they went ahead and did the tubal.Well my last period was November 7,2009 and I haven't had one since...I have craming like a period but nothing no spotting or anything.I have been online tryind to figure this out I don't know if it's early menapause or hormones cysts what have you...I went to the ER this past Wednesday and they gave me a blood test but after being there for four hours another doctor came in and said that it came back negative and that I could go!! I have an app. with my regular gyn on Tuesday and i am affraid that if Im not pg then what is wrong with me.I never wanted a tubal but did it for my husband(we have 3 wonderful children together)so if I am I would be so,so HAPPY but I know my chances are not that good.Someone have any advice for me?!!