Yes I'm firm with my son but my daughter she's pretty good most of the time
My daughter is just like at home, helpful and outgoing, not afraid of speaking up, my son is well behaved at home, but in school he is a bit of a bully, right now he isnt allowed to any electronics, Halloween candy taken away, and on his last warning, he knows what he is doing, if he doesn't stop his Christmas will be cancelled
Yup, kids do act differently around us parents.