13 more days till gender!

[darbel]

Counting down till i/we find out gender.. But heres my dilema... Hes choosing to go hunting the day before ultrasound until the weekend. (Appointments on a tuesday).. He doesnt want me to find out gender, he wants me to have tech put it in an,envelope and me,drive the 2 hrs so we can find out together...... Im thinking, he knew when it was and is deciding to go hunting instead. He is,choosin not to go. (Bow Hunting is a big deal to both of us) BUT im thinking im going to have tech do it for him and that im going to watch the whole time,and enjoy that moment... Ill take it,to,him, and act surprises but its not fair to me to have to wait becuz hes,deciding to not go... Is this wrong of me? I dont want to feel guilty, but..

[darbel]

Glad i have the support here! :)

[turkey_club_0214]

This is a pretty big deal. I would find out on my own and wait for him to get back home to where YOU are to know the gender. He chose hunting over it so, I would just think "me" instead of worrying about his feelings.

[organicmama]

I would do the same. How many times in your life do you see your baby in utero and find out the sex? How many times can you go hunting? His choice, he picked his priority. I'd find out while I was at the doctor.

[amandaball]

I would do the same! I wouldnt be able to wait anyway thats to exciting! Lol

[darbel]

Thats exactly how i feel about it.. Its his choice not to go so why should i have to wait becuz of his choices... Im gonna find out when im there, im not,gonna wait for him!

[amandaball]

Thats not wrong of u at all dont feel guilty. I see the bow hunting is important to u guys, but that is not your fault he chose to do that rather then be there with u during the scan. Honestly if it was that important to him that u find out together, then he would have chose the scan as opposed to a hunting trip.