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7933716 tn?1396130374

I cant do this anymore

my bd is so emotionally abusive to me I just feel like crying he doesnt care about me or my baby and its so stressful on me I wanna leave but im super close to his mom and everytime I say imma leave she says not to leave her and it makes me feel bad cus she really dont have anyone
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But thenn I knoww there's lovee and love is strong and blind but we all been thru being blind because we love so much and dont know how we would be without them like I said stay strong and baby will be here soon
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Oh sweetie I'm very sensitive with cases like that, I've seen friends Goin thru that, you don't have to stay with him, there are so many ways for u to be able to get out of there, you're in a position that need to be relax and enjoying your pregnancy, get out of there, u can keep a relationship with his mom, but out of there, u deserve better than that
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7933716 tn?1396130374
right I know I been dealing with this way beforw I was pregnant ans my dumb *** chooses to stay with his *** I know I need to leave I just ask god to give me strength tk leave this man
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7890617 tn?1398081296
Yu don't have to be with him in order to have a relationship with his mom...he may not like it but yu and she are both grown...a emotional abusive is just as bad as physical or verbal...abuse is abuse...yu need to cut him loose asap before it causes some permanent emotional damage to you and more importantly your child...the sooner yu let him go the easier it will be to deal with him once the baby arrives...as far as his mom...keep in contact with her for the sake of the baby...he/she deserves its grandmother just as much as she deserves he/she

CUT HIM LOOSE ASAP MY DEAR!!
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His*
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Keep your head up and tell him mom to tell him quit his s h I t  already since she doesnt want you to leave cause u dont need to be stressing yourself out u have a precious lil baby coming you dont want your baby involved in that situation... good luckkk wishh u the best :)))
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Leave. You shouldnt be stressing you should be enjoying your pregnancy
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7933716 tn?1396130374
I hate it I feel like im stuck but im not ... my heart is ya know
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7933716 tn?1396130374
I hate it I feel like im stuck but im not ... my heart is ya know
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I'm emotionally abusive also.. I know what you are going through you're not alone!
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