I need any advice possible please help

[anglelovebaby]

how do you help someone who is in the hospital watching their baby die he has cirrhosis of the liver and he's 3 months old and he's my godson and he's very sick I'm trying so hard to be there for his mother Wow 19 weeks pregnant myself I want to help her get through this very tragic trying sad grief-stricken time but what do I say to make her feel better when we all know that the end result is him passing I'm sad and scared and overwhelmed I want to help but don't know the words to say ......feeling lost without words

[YoungLadyDay14]

Yea absolutely not! God is a God of love & he knows we are imperfect & make mistakes. He would never punish her by harming an innocent baby.

[anglelovebaby]

He was born on my birthday and he has only been home a total of two weeks. .........I  told her I love her and that I'm not going to tell u its o.k. because it is not but lets love him as long as we got ........and pray he gets big enough for a liver transplant. ...........the worst part is she blamed herself. ....because to make a long story short still married met new man moved out have a baby he's sick and her husband still cares more about her and the new baby than her new man......feels like god is punishing them for their Sin I told her god wouldn't send a baby to suffer because of u ........he is not cruel even though it sometimes seems that way

[Momma_Chicken]

Im praying for you and all your people. Your baby more than likely keep you calm in this situation. I was 5 months pregnant when my grandmother died, she was my mother pretty much and i stayed calm through it all, and still today almost 10 years later i break down with sadness over it.

[Momma_Chicken]

I cant imagine someone telling me i can have another one, like its a pet, im sorry for your loss. This is sad, but God has got all this. It would haunt me knowing my baby was in pain and i cant help.

[YoungLadyDay14]

Yea sometimes nothing needs to be said. Ur being there & pregnant is speaking volumes. We look for words that can actually make things worse. I remember when I lost my 1st the worse thing to hear people say was oh u can have another one. But another one will never be this one. The void will always be there. Praying they make it through. Be strong so they can be strong.

[jadefield88]

You dont need to anything just let them no your there and will always be there to support them. I really hope they are ok it not nice going through that I had a situation with my friends baby passing but he was severly ill and spent his 6 months of life in hospital xxx