Someone please help- feel like death

[Danni1415]

Ok so this is my second time writing this. General info- I'm 35w with boy. Been preterm since 32w. Also am a single mother of 3 1/2 yr old daughter- so can be on bed rest or lay around all day. Dilated 1cm 50% effaced

I have talked to my doc bout the following and she pretty much said deal with or it's "normal". I do not believe this is just normal pain- feeling like I'm gunna die!
For over a month my lower abdominal area kills when I move at all-- rolling over in bed, getting outta bed or car or from sitting on couch. Any kind of sitting to standing. Bending over. Walking up or down stairs. It's basically a constant pain unless I don't move at all! I also have lower right abdominal pain which doc puts it as ligament pains and I can see that. That's not a constant pain that I feel. It kills when my little man kicks or moves anywhere down there. And I'm not talking bout the sharp shooting pains on the cervix area- get plenty of them too. But I'm to the point of breaking down in doctors office because of pain to beg her to take him. At my 34w appointment everyone wanted to get me a wheel chair because I was in so much pain and bout to bust into tears. The pain has only gotten worse and I can't deal with it for another 4 weeks!!!
Lil over month ago I ended up with a blatter infection.. Attempted treatment- took month to get rid of it! At 32w I ended up with preterm labor, blatter infection(same one) and a yeast infection. Everything has been treated and at my last appointment my doc wanted urine sample to test for the blatter infection. Which has to be gone cause she normally calls me within an hour or 2 of my appointment. I thought maybe the pain would go away with the blatter infection but it can't be from it.. It seems like its only gotten worse!!

Please please help me!!!! Some ideas so I can tell my doctor. Feel I'm bout to take it into my own hands and make him come now!

[delyayle]

They won't deliver you at 35 weeks cause your in pain. That's still a bit too early first off & second I have the same issue & I'm 37 weeks. I am in constant pain to the point I have broken down & just cried. But, it's not much longer an it's worth it in the end! Good luck

[delyayle]

They won't deliver you at 35 weeks cause your in pain. That's still a bit too early first off & second I have the same issue & I'm 37 weeks. I am in constant pain to the point I have broken down & just cried. But, it's not much longer an it's worth it in the end! Good luck

[Danni1415]

I dunno if I think it's nerves. I do get the super sharp pains down in the cervical area from baby pushing or turning his head or whatever..

Thinking I def have to break down to my doctor and get on hands and knees and beg. :'(

[Kate037]

Sounds like nerve pain, I get it pretty bad too, but not as bad as what you are describing. There really isn't much you  can do because it's caused by the way baby is laying. Try bouncing on a yoga ball or doing some lunges to make baby shift around to somewhere else. Hope you can find some relief soon!

[kyanisse]

I read something it can be the baby pushing your  bowels or it can be because of infection you had but can be serious gotta talk to your Dr tell her you can't handle it!

[Danni1415]

Yes baby seems fine I guess.. Desperate?? Beyond that point!! I have no problems going to the bathroom.. But if I have to go I have to go within 10 minutes or ill be in a lot pain.. But never really goes away..

I also can't even lean on one leg to put undies or pants on with out it hurting. Same with sitting on the bed and trying to get dressed.

[kyanisse]

I dont know what to think you sound desperate. I get very bad pain when I have gas or haven't go to the bathroom normally thats my omly idea sorry! Did she do a sonogram or check the baby?