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I cant belive that... If it is a dream i wanna wake up :(

I knew my boyfriend/baby dad for 8 years, we been together for 5 had gorgeus baby boy just nine weeks ago. The whole time i knew he had 6years old son with someone else and the whole time he told me his mother was just mistake that they had sex few times and he brake up with her without even knowing she was pregnant than she came bk with baby bla bla bla... Anyway that what i was belive in for 5 years he always was and still is showing me a lot love even when i tried to brake up with him few times he never gave up... Was on my door step literally every day crying.
I went to his mums house couple days ago and went upstairs to feed the baby and i found letter from solicitor saying he IS MARRIED AND HAVE TWO KIDS WITH THIS WOMEN AND THE YOUNGER ONE IS 3 years OLD.... LIKE WTF they not not together for few years now but he was lieing the whole time i dnt know who is this guy any more and he was with me amd her at the same time when we start goin out.!!! It make me sick to my stomach :(
i cant stop crying how some1 could do this to me for sooo many years now i realize all his stories, everything he ever said WAS A LIE!    
What should i do now.? :(
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Wow that's crazy. Leave him when you can. Just when you think this doesn't happen IRL. I know someone who almost married a guy, dated for Two years and then weeks before wedding found out he left a family on the other side of the country. What are these guys thinking???
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Yes! He will always be a liar! He didnt just do a small white lie.. He was living a lie! Dont go back to him! It will just get worse!
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Sorry, but I would leave that liar and never looked back. You deserve better! Such a lie is just unbelievable, how could you ever trust him again? And how could you have a happy relationship without trust?
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So true #susi she didnt teach him nothing good. Am gonna stay strong for my son coz he is not even worth it me to braking down its not gonna be easy bt i'll forget with time... He is a lie and a cheat and hope some1 will play with hiim one day like he was playing with me.
Thank you all x
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Don't trust any of them! That is horrible move on get away from that is heartless and creepy! He has been playing you for a very long time.
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Yes #Dandi really creepy and wierd... In fact hes mother was there when i found out and said to me "why u making problem this is in past now" like really.?? She knew the whole time and everything... Its discusting what they doing... HOW AM I GONNA TRUST ANYONE NOW?!  
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9971658 tn?1407743983
OMG, It's like a page from a really bad drama play.
Which is worse is that it is true, you never think anything like this can happen to anyone!!

I think you should get a restraining order.
Never see this man again.
He used you and your years and have shown you how little respect he holds for you.

I'm so sorry. This is so saddening.
Why has his mother played along with these lies?!
What sort of family treats people like this?
It is REALLY creepy and weird.
Think about your safety.. try to move if possible as well.
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Oh no its true i knew he fight in court with her coz she stoped him from seeing his son bt i didnt know they are acksilly married amd have two kids... He sayed he always wanted to tell me bt was scared i'm gonna leave him and now his calling like crazy crying asking for forgiveness but how would i ever learn to trust him again ONCE LIER ALWAYS LIER RIGHT?! This is some nightmare coz i WOULD NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING LIKE THAT... I dnt know who is this guy any more. :(
Thanx mummy's
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Wow! You certainly deserve so much better than that, and cannot begin to convey how sorry I am! Thats absolutely heartbreaking! Truth is he is a DOG! You gave yourself to him faithfully and gave him a beautiful son and this is how he treats you? Soo wrong! Its time to move on! I know its hard, however, I suggest having family or friends as a good support system to help you through this. Btw, Did the boyfriend confirm that the note was true? Reason im asking is I would hate that someone lied and wrote the note to break you up.
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10132795 tn?1408172155
OMG!!!!! Move on immediately girl! You deserve the BEST!!!
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