Battle of the Sexes

[deeshavingbaby1]

Lately My Hunny And I Have BeEn Battling Over Finding Out ThE Sex Of OuR First Born Baby .... I Feel Like Its My Body ThAt Is Possibly Going To Get "Messed Up" & Im The One Who Has To Carry The Baby So At Least The Sex Can Be A Surprise. My Humny On The Other Hand Jokes About Neesing To Know Whether To But A Gun Or A Football....How Can We Compromise?! Am I Being Irrational? I Want It To Be A Surprise For Both Of Us =/

[deeshavingbaby1]

Thank You Ladies!! I Suppose I Can Have The TEch Let Him Know In An Envelope And Hope He Never Gives It Away To Me Or Anyone. I Guess I WantEd Everyone To Be As Anxious As I Am About This Baby And Have The Bets Going On And All That Fun Stuff. Your Suggestions Are Much Appreciated.
-Dee

[Mommy0922]

Major props to you Mama for having the self-control to wait! After 2 boys, and this being our last, I am dying to know what we're having! If you think your hubby could keep it a secret, why not just have the tech write it down for him? If you truly want to wait for the surprise,  then you should be able to. This may be the only time you wait because with the next one you might want to know if your having the opposite gender. Good luck!

[Red20145]

It's a hard one you both need to sit and talk if it help you could always ask the ultrasound tec to write the sex out on a piece of paper and hand it over to your partner say you don't want to know the sex and to keep quiet good luck

[Mitt1206]

ken and I debated about finding out the sex of the baby. I wanted to find out but he wanted a surprise. Then I changed my mind and he changed his mind. We went back and forth for a few months. We decided in the end to find out. If you want it to be a surprise then let it be a surprise but you may change your mind later.

[Brittany12385]

Have your ultrasound tech put the answer in an envelope. When you have a baby shower bring the envelope to the bakery abd have them maje the inside pink or blue that you will reveal at the shower with him and everyone else