I get to see my baby girl for the second time today! So excited! And this time we will be assessing how far along I actually am. The current estimate is 21 wks. I know they are checking for birth defects too, and as much as we are hoping everything is great we are happy to accept her as is regardless of whether she is perfect or has some differences. I was born with a heart defect, and worked for a long time with children and adults with physical and mental disabilities, so I know if would be hard but every individual is special and wonderful! Has anyone else felt this way?