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4437866 tn?1388119624

Divorcing him after all

I was ready to try and work things out.. but turns out that's not gonna happen. I'm so mad right now I'm still shaking! I was out driving around and went to Starbucks to p and get coffer and a snack. As i just got parked,  grabbed my wallet and walked to the door to my surprise there sits my husband sucking face with this woman. Who is very well pregnant... I asked him what was going on. She got mad at me. Guess she didn't know I was married to him and pregnant with twins. His twins. She said they were together a year! WTF how could I not see this? She's due next month!!! He started to cry... again... she slapped him ( good girl) apologized to me. And told him she would be after support. the girls working at Starbucks came out to see what was going on and I told them and everyone else there and he left. But hey got free coffee out of it... I'm so hurt. I feel so stupid. What an @$$!
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4192942 tn?1360615437
Omg thats so terrible! Your twins dont deserve a father like that, good for you for deciding on a divorce. What an ***!
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4268628 tn?1375041176
Oh sweety...I'm so sorry. :( deep breath and do you have her name? He still staying with your folks? Might have them.dump his crap on the front porch if he is. Wish I could say something to help.
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I woulnt give my babies his last name either!! You don't have to. He can still b on birth certificate for support reasons. My goddess!!! I would want him dead but then again dead means he wouldn't pay as much as he should. Maybe we can just hope for total parapoligic!!
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4437866 tn?1388119624
the stripper is a different woman. I made that known to him in front of the pregnant woman. My god I'm confused on this... I asked him ' the stripper and her? Who wlse' she didn't know about the stripper or his wife! I'm not mad at her. She didn't know and she took off in tears we were both mislead.. why would he do this to me.. it not like he wasn't getting enough. Almost everyday! God I'm so sick. Dumb @$$ is not only going to have to pay child support to her kid. But MY twins and spousal support. He is sooo done! Just hope I don't have to wait till after the kids are born to ditch him. He can have his last name back.
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Avatar universal
Im so sorry youre going thru this :( that was my biggest fear when i started being with the guy who is mow my husband :/ that he would cheat my parents couldnt stay faithful to each other :( it would have been totally unclassy and mean to her which youd need to apologize to her but i would have said really loudly gee honey!! I didnt know they let pregnant strippers work?! But maybe she would know he was basically calling her a stripper to come up with an excuse to why you found that shirt :/
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I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to say. :( lots of love for you my dear.
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