It's hard not to say anything

[crisquinn]

I just found out I'm pregnant.  With first child at age 34. I'm finding it really hard to wait the 3 months to tell people.  How do I keep it a secret  for so long

[MilaVenezolana]

I got two types if reactions. I told my family the nextday and they were soooo happy . I was only 4 weeks. But some people in my hhusband family they were like ohhhh great super happy and then they ask..how far along are you? And I said 4 weeks, and they were like... 4 weeks?? Oh well its not a baby yet, people miscarriage all the time, There is a reason why people wait 3 months bla bla bla...and it make me feel bad they act like I was not pregnant untill a few weeks ago .im 16 weeks now

[MilaVenezolana]

I got two types if reactions. I told my family the nextday and they were soooo happy . I was only 4 weeks. But some people in my hhusband family they were like ohhhh great super happy and then they ask..how far along are you? And I said 4 weeks, and they were like... 4 weeks?? Oh well its not a baby yet, people miscarriage all the time, There is a reason why people wait 3 months bla bla bla...and it make me feel bad they act like I was not pregnant untill a few weeks ago .im 16 weeks now

[BabyBoysMama]

Congrats mommy! I'm a FTM also! My hubby and I found out right at 4 weeks! We initially wanted to keep it completely between the 2 of us until our first appointment and ultrasound at 12 weeks buttttt week 6 hit and with it came horrible morning sickness! There was no way I could hide it-we decided to tell family and then I ended up needing to get some IV fluids at the ER where I work so family turned into close friends and coworkers so we just tried to keep it to that until our first appointment and ultrasound and then we announced it to extended family and social media! I love all the support we had throughout this entire pregnancy as it hasn't been easy! But do what you feel is right and best for you (: congrats again mommy!

[medrano1031]

I told my sister and older nephew (were close) rite away. At 8 weeks we told our families at thanksgiving.  =) were waiting for 12 weeks to share the news with friends.  

[nannewmom]

First off congratulations, your gonna be a mom..YAY!!!♡ I am a FTM to and I am 30 years old been married with hubby 9 years this april coming. So after trying for so long we wanted to tell everyone but we waited. We only told my parents and his parents as soon as we found out. So we got lots of support from them. Then after tge 3 months and or first ultrasound we told everyone♡ So maybe you can find two ppl you trust to keep it secret, like parents or, siblings and just tell them, that way you can have support and you have someone to talk to.♡best wishes to you momma♡

[sabrinaallen]

Plan a suprised announcement party that will keep you busy. Make it seem like it's just a friendly get together and then just nonchalantly drop it on m them.

[Ab918]

Don't wait unless you think that you won't tell anyone if something were to go wrong. That seems like the only reason people wait it because if there is a miscarriage then they don't want it her people to know. I told everyone right away because it isn't like if something happened it would be kept a secret

[newmomma2be]

I told my parents as soon as me and bf found out and then started telling everyone else and i am 39weeks and 2days

[Baby__3_ontheway_2015]

i was super excited as well after waiting almost two years to conceive I had to let close friends n family know at 5 weeks.. I'm now 24weeks 2days

[jesshat]

Look at it this way the more you tell the more support you have. I have always told right away with my 3.

[mommytobe_dec2014_]

I told fam and my bff at 6 weeks then everyone else at 10 weeks...now I'm 40w 3d...I say tell them when you want to its to hard to wait

[Ninny_]

don't... tell olose family n friends.