found out my husband was talking to a woman

[ennyenny]

He swears he didn't do anything but the text seem they were to close he called her baby and told her I'm all yours I forgave him but now he won't have sex with me we where having that problem before I wake up wanting to do it I'm at a point that im frustrated because I'm very sexualy active and he won't do **** is it because of that woman he was talking to ugh idk what to do I'm 26 weeks pregnant

[joamb]

Sorry to say this but sounds like he's lying. My husband lied and lied when I caught him talking to someone else. Eventually it all came out..... thankfully someone told me what was going on. I've since forgiven him but it was A LOT of work and hardship. You need to decide first if you are the type of woman that can forgive or not also, I would suggest counseling to your husband. I basically just told my husband after a friend told me what he was doing that he either came clean about everything or our marriage was over and if he came clean I would consider working on things but there were strict rules in place after in order to rebuild the trust.

[wyattsmom2015]

Same here he will lie unless he is really caught. He will only admit to what you find out about. Investagate and find out what is going on. I know from experience good luck you will need it.

[chloegc1023]

Yup, I agree.  Don't let him off the hook just yet, I'm pretty sure there's more going on that u don't know about.  I've been there.  when a man is talking Luke that to another woman, I can't almost guarantee that more is there.  I would be doing some serious investigating if I were u.  

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

I agree with all these ladies! So u had,to have been snooping to find out so if I were you I would go back and snoop some more get that womans number email etc. Get her siade of the story I can almost bet that she doesn't know about you and if she does then that tells a lot about her as well!! But you might get the real truth out of her before your man !!! Good luck let us know what you decide to do u still have a while to go before baby comes so try not to stress too much!

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

Also if he doesn't want to have sex and he told that woman "im all yours" maybe he is getting more then just text back and forth! I would definitely try and contact her if he wpnt give the whole story,

[fefesbabynumtwo]

Oh ya, way more going on then he fessed up to. Those words would be all the proof I needed to leave his @$$. Dig deeper. And why would you want sex right after finding that out? He's gonna think your desperate to keep him and will put up with him and his cheating ways. I'd make him beg for it.

[soon2bemommieof2]

I'm sorry you have to deal with this especially while pregnant. I agree with the others,  something more is going on. Good luck with everything mama.

[1NAMILLION]

I'm sorry that you're enduring this unfortunate situation. ..I hope all works out in the end, but, these ladies are correct.... he's lying.  Based on your hubbys conversation with this homewrecking trollop, he is somewhat involved with her more than he is truthfully stating and he is sleeping with her as well...which would also explain why he has avoided sex with you.

Best wishes and I hope that eveything gets better.

[Skyseyes]

Sorry you have to go through this...personally I would leave him. I would choose to better my life and the life of my children. If my husband cheated (been with him for about 9 years) especially while I was pregnant I wouldn't think twice about leaving. I personally would never be able to get over the fact that he felt so low of me. But that is me and I know everyone has their own paths....I am simply sorry you are going through this.

[Mimilove3]

I wouldn't even try  sleeping with man if hes telling someone else hes hers.. what if he gets an std. Besides that RESPECT for u and the baby!!!

[koyama83]

They lie. I found a note to a woman, hitting on her, giving her his number in my so 's truck and he denies that he wrote it. Men feel guilty and treat you badly when cheating and they feel like they're being disloyal to their mistress if they sleep with their actual partner. I'd text the number back and let her know that you exist, just don't be rude or mean and don't engage in arguing with her...and when you confront him (if you catch him in a lie) do it from a place of strength, not sad. Don't offer him sex anymore. Let him wonder why YOU'VE stopped.

[ennyenny]

Well I confronted the woman and talked to her calmly and she said they where just talking that they never got to the sex because he wouldn't tell him where he lives or work so they where sextingi guess and u guys are right I stopped asking for sex and being sweet to him and he cannot go anywhere without my approval or without me he lost his freedom I check his cell everyday and so far nothing its taking me a a huge effort to move on and work things with him for me n my kids I actually gave him a chance to see his kids grow I hope he learn his lesson

[Miszydd]

Keep yourself busy, men are such pigs!!! I'm so sorry that has happened to you. I can relate because that's what just recently happened to me. Just know tatt your going to be a wonderful mom to a beautiful baby.

[ennyenny]

Thank you ladies