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venting ... plz help me
Ok im about to be 29 weeks pregnant an my boyfriend doesnt care bout me or the baby seems like ... all he wanna do is do drugs ' call me all type of bad names ; says he doesnt love me & really just wanna see me cry an hurt ... what should I do ????
Don't worry it's your pregnancy @is affecting him..am in the same situation I been with my man 6 years
Children grow up just fine with one parent.
You can't say the same about children who grow upwith a drug user!!!
You need to leave him, you know it is the right thing to do.
You can't say the same about children who grow upwith a drug user!!!
You need to leave him, you know it is the right thing to do.
Agree that you need to leave him! Yes kids need both parents in their life however, it seems that this 'daddy' wouldn't be any good for your child! Move on & find someone that will be a food dad to your baby. It will take some time so don't rush into anything with anyone after!! Best of Luck!
This is so.my.situation. i was with hlmy bd 3 years and now our.son. and he was more.interested.in.tweaking.and gambling. He didnt help.me with anything and would call me a.b*** n stuff. And now hes in prison and i left him. Time.to move on screw him im in love with my babyboy now not him anymore
Yes its teaching me alot .. I just hear alot of ppl say " a child deserve both parents in their life" but I kant force him to be here ... ive waited dis long hopen an prayin he change but it seems like its gettin worse ... he like to send mixed emotions an im really tired of it ... his bs is getting old ... im starting to not look at him the same nomo
I agree with above. You should leave him. Now!
That's the sad part, that when we walk away we don't look back and then they decide to change. I was with my bd for 10 years 3kids later and went thru the same thing. Now that I think about it idk how and why I stayed so long. Once I walked I never looked back and by the time he realized it was waaay to late. I'm in a great healthy relationship now but what I lived with my bd did make me stronger and smarter too. Good luck
Thanks an wen I leave I dont think I will ever be able to accept him back in my life cuz he is abusing me mentally an emotional an verbally
I know an we been together for almost 6 yrs an it hurt me so bad ... for him to kno im carryin his child an he dont even care .. I never thought we would end this way but I guess I gotta do what I gotta do for my child with or without him.
Leave him. You don't need that in your life or your baby's either. Having a family should make him grow up. You need to be strong. Maybe once you show him you're ready to walk away he will take the step and get help also and change.
:( aww sweetie I'm so sorry to hear that but as women we all deserve better and our children should not be raised around drugs. I believe it's better to stay away and move on with your child.
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