Feel very alone and unloved

[LouLou1234]

So today im super upset and down seeing pregnant girls with their partners! im going through my pregnancy on my own as the guy disapeared and told me it wasnt his child bcus he knew he couldnt have kids! i do have family supporting me but whn i see girls with their partners, it makes me upset cus i dont have that somebody to love me and ive always had boyfriends that have treated me like crap! So fed up so i am:( :(

[aurora92]

My mom was basically a single mom & we are still best friends, with a deeper bond than any other parent-child relationship I've ever witnessed. I'm so grateful things happened the way they did & I'm so amazed by/proud of her strength, and the person it has made both of us. It is probably so hard during pregnancy, but soon you'll actually have your child & that relationship will offer you a world of confidence, stength & love that won't parallel that of anyone else.. and you will eventually find someone who will love both of you :-)

[upnorthmomma]

The right man at the right time will come into yours and your baby's life. I know it seems like a far off thought, and as cliche as it may sound, the right people love us for the right reasons.. it is true. Sometimes we are tested and pushed but someone will love you for the way you shine through your child/ children. I was 21 and after 5 year rrelationship with someone I loved and thought I knew, he left me to raise 2 year old son alone.. I found myself! How strong I was! I feared I would never find a good man.. for me and my son.. a role model.. 5 years later and time flies! I find myself pregnant, with a good man, who is excited to be a daddy! I fear losing him too at times.. but live for the now and know everything works out in due time. <3 some people only come into our lives to teach us our own strength!

[LouLou1234]

Thanks girls this has made me feel better reading all ur kind messages:) im glad im not the only girl going through it alone!:) ive had a great sleep and feel much better but a little teary eyed lol

[seh4531]

Tomorrow is my due date and I've been alone my whole pregnancy. Believe me I get it momma. Just remember you don't need him and your better off without.
I hope you have friends and family to support you. It still gets hard and lonely. But having that support is invaluable.

[singermomtobe]

I'm there with you. All the pregnancy books say "get your significant other to do this" and I'm just like 'what if you are alone?' It is very depressing.

[tobiasmama11]

Im going through the same all we can do for each other is pray the lord will bring us through our troubles!  God bless and good luck

[crissyboo1]

Just remember ur not alone u have a special lil baby in u that loves u all ready and will never stop loving u!

[Jaja65]

Aawww hun chin up! It will get better I promise especially once you're able to see your baby and hold him/her. You'll be alright it just takes time to help you move past this.

[cntryma02]

I'm going through the same thing but just remember you get 100% of baby's time :) it's his loss!!

[aprilj93]

Dont be sad. I know its hard but you have a wonderful blessing on the way. I can tell you that I dont understand cause I am married and my husband is supportive (most the time). But.... I have a sister and a few friends that have been through it alone, although its a struggle and its hard they just look at their baby as a blessing and try to ignore the rest. If he said that to you then he doesn't deserve you. And that baby will love you unconditionally it will be the most love you've ever felt and worth it in the end!