Feeling guilty & emotional ;-(

[katiij81]

My partner & I decided we were going to start trying for a baby.  I went to the doctors to talk about prenatal care & she asked me when my last period was. I've always skipped on the pill so I think it had been about 3 months. I had to have a pap so she suggested we did a pregnancy test just in case. I was still getting undressed for my pap when she told me the test was positive. What the??? I have POCS, I couldn't believe it, I cried for about an hour, absolute shock. Turned out I was already 6 weeks pregnant.  This is where the guilt kicks in, my gorgeous loving older sister has two little ones now but it took her years, IVF, lots of money & lots of pain to have them. I fell pregnant without even trying, I feel so bad for her & so guilty. I just can't stop crying, I'm guessing this is hormone induced ;-(

[katiij81]

I'm so grateful my sister has her beautiful kids, I can imagine it is hard for your sister excited123. I'm sure I'll feel better when I speak to her. Riding the emotional waves!! Thanks for your kind words ladies x  

[bigmamapagaza]

Congradulations. What is... is. Fate. You are blessed. You can't change it. Accept it. Its a beautiful gift!

[excited123]

I can totally understand.. I have a sister who still has been unsuccessful.. Telling her was the hardest thing and at times she has been sad but mostly sheis very happy for me

[Treksy]

I understand where youre coming from, why feel guilty though? Its not as if she never got kids. Im sure shed be very happy it was easy for you. Nobody who loves you would want you to feel so awful when its a time of celebration!
Congratulations on your pregnancy!

[katiij81]

Thank you, I'm going to tell her tomorrow when I stop crying. Crazy hormones!

[YoungLadyDay14]

Well congrats on ur baby. I'm sorry ur feeling guilty. It's just one of those things nobody is at fault. Im sure ur sis will be happy for u. Try not to stress over it. Wish you well!