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I feel ungrateful

For the longest time I wanted to have a baby. I finally got pregnant last year October I'm 31 weeks Belive me I'm thankful for this baby and I love it.  In my ideal world I'd have boys only.  I've had all my scans done but asked not to be told the sex of the baby. Now that I'm close to my due date,I'm afraid it's a gal. I'm stressed. I even dream that it's a gal and I get freaked out.

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I already have a girl so being pregnant again I really wanted a boy, imagine my surprise when it was another girl. Although I had time to cope with the news I'm more excited now than anything to have another girl from the nursery to clothes shopping. Although I still really want a boy I'm sure the creator has a plan for me and I've accepted that. ♡
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Im with you on that, I've always wanted a girl now that I'm pregnant I want a boy! Lol I honestly just pray for a healthy baby at this point bc even I don't know anymore lol
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I have a 10 year old boy, and finally pregnant with my second child. I want nothing more then it to be a boy!!! I will be sad if it is a girl. I know I will get over it once I see her. Our parents want a girl,but me,my husband,and son want a boy. Time will tell. I think it's normal to want what you want.
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I hope I can get over this feeling.  We will love our babies especially when we lays eyes on for the first time.
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I  am just the opposite. I have always wanted a girl and now that I'm pregnant, I want a boy. I will still be happy if it's a girl, but something inside of me really wants a boy and feels that it is a boy. I'm even afraid to tell my boyfriend that I want a boy because we've wanted a girl for years. He has a boy already and this will be my first and ONLY. Lol. But once our babies come, we will love our little ones no matter what. We will just have to get use to the idea of having the opposite of what we've wanted so long. But you'll love her just the same. Good luck to you!!
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Once the baby is here you will love him/her no matter what. No use stressing about something like that. Enjoy yourself
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