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8788428 tn?1400250290

I see a lot of things.

That make me really disappointed in men on here . It's really a shame what the world is coming to However what about the good Husbands/Fathers/Boyfriends/Babydaddys lol I'm thankful that I'm blessed with a wonderful soul mate and at times he really annoys the crap out of me and makes me want to punch him in the throat at the end of the day he is there to hold me and be with my son and I and our unborn. For the women who have to go through horrible things with there spouse or ex keep your head up i got beat for 5 years by my ex before i found my husband . Things get tough but pray and remember your kid/kids will love you NO MATTER WHAT. Any good news on men ?
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My hubby is awesome. We have known each other since the 3rd grade. We got married at 18 and just celebrated out 15 year anniversary.  We have grown up together. He makes my life easier and will do anything I ask of him and sometime he does things just because. He is a great person and I couldn't imagine waking up next to someone else or having a baby with anyone else. Yeah he gets stressed and goes through all the worrying that a new daddy does but he is crazy excited to get our little boy here. Now Sept needs to get here so we can start this wonderful new chapter of our lives.
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Yes! I am so encouraged to hear these things! All the time I read these horror story posts and I feel so awful for the ladies that have to go through these things. But it also makes me SO thankful for my husband who is truly a God-fearing man. He treats me way better than I deserve. He is always loving and patient with me, always trying to serve me and love me as Christ loves the church. The foundation of our relationship is Jesus and so our relationship thrives because God is such a good and loving God. I post that the men who are treating these ladies so terribly will have a life changing encounter with God. Them change will undoubtedly come.
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8788428 tn?1400250290
Agree (;
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I am truly blessed that god has blessed our marriage. I love with my hisband with all my heart and he continues to do the best he can to love, support and provide for his family. I am so proud of him. And I pray for all the women going through the pain because I knew once what it was like. Keep your head up, know your self worth and know that NO MAN DEFINES YOU, YOU CAN DO WITH OUT THE BAD ONES! !
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8788428 tn?1400250290
Sometimes when you least expect it Is when it happens . There are good men out there . Like i said it took me 5 painful years of being beat and called fat and disgusting and every other degrading name in the book and being cheated on to find someone who will and has do anything for me. I lost my mother when i was 3 in a car accident my farther was a big part of Me still is he raised me while working two jobs and NEVER EVER acted like i was in the way. So when my ex did these things to Me it kind of confused me because i had alot of tragedy young . He never understood . My husband is my heart soul and body he two hasn't missed a craving and I'm on pregnancy number 2 and my son will only be 1 next month. That's alot of cravings .. Lol he always rubs my whole Body and takes care of my son when he gets home so i can rest and I'm quite insecure and he never forgets 3 years later to Tell me how beautiful i am even if i just woke up. I never thought anyone would love me like he does and boy believe me i don't forget to thank God for him (:  
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I am so happy for you ladies. You give me a Lil hope though I am envious. I have tried and will do anything to have my boyfriend say one nice thing to me with out the "but" factor. Thanks girls.
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7763229 tn?1396626895
My hubby is the best. While I was hospitalized he took the reins without a hesitation and took care of everything. He has been patient, kind and loving this whole time even when I snap on him for stupid stuff. He is my heart and the best father ever. I am blessed to have him as my soul mate and the father of my children.
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6674791 tn?1396215150
Tinkerbelly--- I think they all annoy us at times... but that doesn't mean we love them any less or that they love us any less... sometimes mine likes go as he calls "mess" with me-- and its when he is feeling particular ornery he likes to flat out annoy me... I do the same to him... its a game we play... lol
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7754230 tn?1408540347
I have the best but annoying husband lol. He treats me so well and it hurts me to see all the horrible situations a lot of the other pregnant ladies are going threw. I would've never gotten pregnant if my husband a jerk. I would not want a child to be brought into this world with a father like most of these dudes. Im so thankful that my husband is going to be a great dad, it gets me teary eyed just knowing our baby will be so loved.
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7754230 tn?1408540347
I have the nedt but annoying husband lol. He treats me so well and it hurts me to see all the horrible situations a lot of the other pregnant ladies are going threw. I would've never gotten pregnant if my husband a jerk. I would not want a child to be brought into this world with a father like most of these dudes. Im so thankful that my husband is going to be a great dad, it gets me teary eyed just knowing our baby will be so loved.
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i agree with u !! we must uplift praise n b thankful for the great men/fathers that still do exist.i lost my mom  4 yrs ago n i never knew what a real father was n i was a single parent to an infant i felt so defeated n lost but i meet a guy who stepped in  accepted  my son n myself n  now we cant make it down the aisle faster enough in between these babies. We have a daughter together n now we r waitin on our twin boys!! i must say that i n our kids r blessed beyond measures he is the epitome of a great friend father  man n a provider n i am so thankful for him!! #wantGODdoit??
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I must say I am truly blessed. We have been together for 5 yrs married for 1 yr on the 31st of this month.
My husband caters to my every need even when I don't vocalize them. He makes sure to give a helping hand when needed around the house, he cooks, clean, goes to the grocery store etc.  without being asked. My heart hurts that all woman don't have someone who gives them all the love and support they deserve especially while pregnant.
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6674791 tn?1396215150
My husband is also my soul mate. :)  We have been together for 7 years and married for 6 years and are expecting our second child. He has been my rock throughout this entire pregnancy and been very supportive with all my complications... he comforts me when I start to cry, goes out to get my cravings, and rubs my back when I ask him to. I couldn't ask for a better man :)
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7169526 tn?1389529022
My fiance is amazing. Has never yelled at me ever and is extremely patient. He's also a hard worker both at work and home. Last night he helped with supper (cooking and cleaning), ran me a bath, foot massage and massaged my groin (unbearable pain). Even came in every ten mins to see if I needed help getting out of the very deep tub. My heart hurts for women in such awful situations.
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Yes. My husband and I have been together for
13 years and married for 10 next month. He has been very supportive as I have went to school most of those years and I start again in June to get my doctoral degree and become a nurse practitioner. He is my soul mate!
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My husband is also my soul mate.  :) I met him after 5 years of being abused by my ex. We are now expecting our second baby. He is sweet and caring and doesn't smoke do drugs and rarely drinks. He is everything I've ever wanted and more xx
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