I'm desperate for advice!!!

[baby414]

I posted a few days ago about not wanting my baby to go her father's spouse because I'm scared she'll hurt her. She threatened me and the baby throughout my pregnancy and I don't trust her. I spoke to a lawyer and there's nothing I can do about it until something happens. I'm really afraid for my baby. Has anyone here been in this situation. Please give me some advice.

[Novembermommy1104]

Why don't you take a protective order out against her-on behalf of you and your baby. That way he cannot take her there. It sounds like you have enough reason to if she threatened you both.A judge should grant it. I'd rather be safe than sorry. Best of luck !

[mommylece]

I know this girl who was with my friends baby's dad and my friends son was just a baby well this girl got pregnant by him too and she was so jealous of what my friend and him had that she didn't like the baby either that she fed him pineapple knowing he was allergic to it! So be very careful and don't allow that b!+<h to be around your baby at all!!!

[MrsRuiz7911]

Don't let her get close to that kid. Being she don't have any she envys you and envy leads to someone getting hurt whether it's physically or mentally let it not be you and or your offspring. Besides jealousy makes you do crazy things in the heat of the moment. File a restraining order on her.

[zoezinger]

1-800-442-4453. Also they have this great resource guide for parents: http://www.childhelp.org/pages/help-for-parents-caregivers.

[zoezinger]

You should call Childhelp's hotline. They have trained counselors who can guide you through this.

[elvendork]

you need to record her threatening you and the baby

[ross1112]

Is true what mommie2b says, don't let him take ur baby with her without u there, no no, that's no good, I'm not in that situation but I don't think I would let him see my baby outside of my house, and I would kill a ***** if she does something to my baby

[mommy2b1989]

I dealt with a baby mama like that. Im a protective mom. So I told him point blank if u want to see ur daughter u better not ever take her around the other baby mama. It worked. So since they r married n u fear for ur baby then tell him u will meet him somewhere n ur staying. Ur way or no way. Just my opinion.