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Intamicy with hubby

Hey ladies, so I'm almost 30 weeks and so frustrated.
So many people talk about how sex has been amazing all their pregnancy due to lovely hormones but for me I've pretty much had no desire since about 20weeks...finally last night I had the need to finally have sex and of course I couldn't finish. I was so frustrated, then of course my poor hubby felt bad then he couldn't finish...we both felt bad and disappointed. We even tried some vibrations to help and nothing worked.
Anyone else going through this? I feel like a totally ****** wife not being able to be their for my husband. He's being so understanding, but I feel terrible regardless!!
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I do a backwards sitting position with my legs tucked under his so he's slightly sitting up. So he enjoys the rear view that this pregnancy has giving me...lol in this position i can control everything without straining myself or feeling uncomfortable.  This pregnancy im not really interested as much but because im just exhausted by the end of the day...oh and also helps to have your dresser mirror in view front or side :0) im ok with no complaints in this position.
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Its all about blow jobs to keep the hubbys happy and we don't feel bad for not wanting to have sex ;)
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5079976 tn?1380275206
Well I dont mind the sex I can deal with that or force myself to its pleasing him orally that makes me sick.... he is really aggravated with me that I puke everytime but I cant help it. But I am so sick of hearing about it until I just want to scream and say f**k you and just leave. Thats how aggravated I get
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Thanks for sharing ladies. It ***** we all have to go through this frustrating stuff, but its nice to know we are not alone in our frustration.

Good luck to you all :-)
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6670343 tn?1383601489
I feel your pain! 26 weeks and me and my bf have had sex maybe 6 times the entire pregnancy and side from the Times during early early pregnancy, I have yet to finish. It it's very frustrating and my bf too has been understanding. I don't things are going to hear up for the rest of the pregnancy either. :(
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I'm 28 weeks pregnant an have never enjoyed sex so much an my partner seems to find me even more attractive , however last week or so baby moves so much its really off putting for me so think sex may begin to lesson now lol  great whileit lasted
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Almost 34 weeks here and can't finish since Idk when. At the beginning I tried really hard to finish and my stomach would get really hard and hurt for a long time. Now I feel so big and unsexy that I don't even try to finish scared I will hurt the baby or go into labor. I do crave sex but I feel too tired for it. My husband can't seem to keep his hands off of me so we do it like 3 or 4 times a week. I know he has need, I have orgasams but light compared to the ones before pregnancy, but my husband gets to finish every time. We have to get like in an L position to be comfy lol
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I'm sooo there. I'm 25 weeks and have struggled with sex this pregnancy and to top that off I have a cold and I feel like he's pestering me. In reality he's just being himself but I just want to tell him to get lost lol
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I'm at 28 weeks and haven't gotten any from my hubby in a few weeks. I would like to do it all the time but I'm just So tired from working full-time in addition to the hormones and weight. I feel bad for both of us. I wish I had one of those pregnancies that made me want it all the time: -(
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Me and my partner haven't been passionate and sex isn't enjoyable for me and im 31 weeks. I know how you feel and all I want is the spice up our lives
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5761111 tn?1373906251
Im 22 weeks and I don't feel like having sex at all but I force my self to. I had sex with my husband two days ago and it hurt so bad but I pretended just so he could finish cus the last time we had sex was like three weeks ago so I felt soooo bad to tell him to get off. I feel u it sux sooo bad.
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