Hi, this is the first time on this page, I just found out today I'm. Pregnant, possibly (estimated) 6 weeks and 2days. A little back story..... (sorry if its long)
Ive been with my husband for 10yrs, married for 5 going on 6yrs. We tried for years to conceive, it just never happened. I'm 26 and figured I'm still young and should let God decide when the time was right for us to be parents. In. July of 2011 we were approached to be foster parents with the possibility of adoption, it literally took us seconds yo say yes. Long story short in Sept of 2013 we finalized our adoption, I have beautiful now 4yr old. Princess and a rough but cuddly now 3 year old mommas boy, they are my world.
So finding out I'm Pregnant came as a surprise, I just accepted that God had a different path to motherhood for me, and I was grateful to say the least. Now don't get me wrong, my husband and i are thrilled at the news. But at the same time I don't feel as relieved as I thought. I would, or has overwhelmingly excited.... I think above anything else I'm mostly terrified!!! I'm afraid to get my hope up, to get excited and start planning , for something to go wrong. I have this fear or more like a dread that I'm not gonna ever meet my baby, that something will go wrong... my husband does not understand why I'm not more excited, I just feel like crying when this should be so joyous. I don't know how to explain this feeling to anyone, and I'm even more afraid to admit my fears and say it out loud... will this feeling go away as things move along or will it get worse? Is this kinda thinking even normal? I just feel like I'm tearing myself apart and i don't know how to stop :'(