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4th baby and kinda bummed..
Hi im new to this site, my name is krissy and i am a mother of 3. 11,8 and 7. currently pregnant with number 4. im a little bummed about this one even though i should be happy its hard. I dated a man for about 1 month. He was very nice,we got along great. We had unprotected sex and yes i know very irresponsible of me im 32 i t was the heat of the moment,no condom although i asked him to pull out, tmi i know.. long story short he did not and boom pregnant. I was so full of depressed emotion when i found out. I dont believe in abortion because 2yrs ago i had one for the first time ever with my childrens father, i went into shock and for a month was dreadfully depressed. I vowed id never do it again plus my father died in 05 and the baby is due on my fathers death date. My problem is the guy turned evil once i told him. Remarks like i will run that baby over,spit in its face and dont call me or think im going to take care of it.. you ruined my life, your scum etc.. ive cried for 3 months almost over this. I just dont believe in abortion, all his friends talk qbout me and im not use to this as i was with my kids father for 11yrs. Worst part of it all is that its my cousins girlfriend of 7yrs that he has a child with childrens father. So needless to say a few family members talk about me badly. Me and her are not blood related she just has a child with my cousin. I feel depressed n horrible, i came out a long relationship we crossed paths and it happened. Im not proud or happy to be pregnant and feel like this baby ruined lives and i feel like a bad person. But on another bright side regardless of sperm dna i feel this baby was a blessing sent by my dad being the baby is due on his death date. Ive suffered a subchorionic bleed since 6wks and now almost 12wks. I feel like the odds are against this angel but shes a fighter and still with me.
Mine is off and on spotting.. i also had an instance where brownish clot n yuck came out, dr said it was old. But i continue you to spot.. im just thankful i made it to 11wks honestly i never thought i would at 6.
I had a very large one with my daughter. I was diagnosed at 7 weeks and i was bleeding very heavy until 20ish weeks. She is now a loud healthy one year old.
As for the pregnancy itself, don't let anyone bring you down. Stay true to yourself and keep your family close.
As for the pregnancy itself, don't let anyone bring you down. Stay true to yourself and keep your family close.
Thank you all.. its been very stressful. A subchorionic bleed is a hemorrhage in the uterus . Mine is pretty large they considered me to have a miscarriage at 6wks but i have not.
Forget about that idiot, when your little angel is born it will be the best thing to happen and your father will be looking over you and all your children, also forget what other people are saying you find out who your true family and friends are in the end and eventually they will come to you and be sorry for things they have said and did. Hope all goes well in your pregnancy and enjoy it be strong for your little family that's all that matters. :-)
What is subchorionic bleed?
Screw that pig. You have this blessing and you will be happy you did.
You're a great deal stronger than you realize. ;) As to the subchorionic bleed, Ihhad one with my 3rd. He is now 7. It is scary but, most often not truly a threat to the baby. It's below the placenta so it usually doesn't interfere. You're probably going to be monitored extra closely to be sure. ;)
Thank you for all the kind words. I as well believe everything happens for a reason too..
I believe everything happens for a reason. You are pregnant with a beautiful baby for a reason. That scumbag can say all he wants. I wouldn't worry about what he says, ultimately it is your body and your decision. You have the right to take him to court for support and if he continues to threaten you they will not grant him any visits. Dont let him scare you. I wouldn't be able to have an abortion either. Just surround yourself by those who support you and enjoy your new addition.
I'm on baby 5 I'm 29, and I understand how you feel I had an abortion right after my 3rd son and man I cried and wondered was that my lil girl, I have 4 boys and told myself I would never do that again, Having babies is a gift and God will never give more than u can handle, just keep him close and pray, you will get through this I pray that you will.
Babies are a gift from god, and that guy is a disgusting pig for the things he has said to you. Good luck, I hope things get better for you
Dont think about the baby ruining lives but instead look at it as though she has helped you to realize who really needs to be and deserves to be in yours and your children's lives. And don't feel bad about not being happy yet, I'm also on number four and was very upset when I found out all I could think about was how a new baby would effect my other three, you will be happy soon its just normal to be concerned and scared at first. Dont let others make you feel badly for doing what you think is right
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