dont u just hate it when your plans get f..... d

[sadiasaqib]

This year has been a disaster all the way. Planned on working but fell pregnant ( was happy to hv a baby) decided to carry on working part time but health issues came so I had to stop. Moved house took ages to set up then mother in law came to country and got busy with them new drama evry day. Came October 3rd wedding anniversary planned to go Scotland for few days with hubby but sister in laws baby died then left it to that but hubby went turkey with his family not big deal. Now I planned to hv a baby shower but my husbands sister is gona get married in next 3 weeks just as im ready to pop any time soon. I dont understand whats goin on feels like my happiness is just getting buried some wher. Any one else who feels the same. ? Sry its a long boring story.

[sadiasaqib]

Im very happy me and hubby do go out often for dinner or mk most of our time at home dont let stupid things gt to us bit it just annoys me evry time I planned something his family had ther own plans.. today I sd im nt gona go to wedding coz its not easy to sit or walk for too long I stay in bed nd try to relax but his mum kicked a fuss oh every one has to go so I thought yeh right last month u created a big scene in my house made life hell for us and now u knw its nearly time for babys arrival u decided to come bk and still chat crap. When was last time u listend to me. The wedding could hv taken place in feb or march my baby shower was more important lol... ny ways I think its the hormones building up slowly next thing she might see is a broom or some dish flyin towards her.. its my second baby and im trying to get everything ready as much as I can trustin her once she tks over my poor hubby will hv to spend lots of money so I hv stocked up on most of the kitchen stuff. .

[fozia786]

Ah bless. Stay positive darling. I know its hard. But things do get better. Bad times dont stay forever. Good times will come. Not long left for us. Five weeks for u and six for me. Then we will have a new baby to keep us busy and bring us happiness. Not everybody can be happy for everybody.  As long as u stay strong. Things will get better. Is this ur second? My little 4 and a half year old boy is so happy aand cant wait. Just the happiness I see in him wen we talk about the baby makes it worth while. X

[nitrah]

I hear you. I believe it's even more difficult while pregnant. My husband and I put off so many things once we found out we are having a baby. But I spoke with him about it reminding him we have to be intentiony about spending time building our own relationship, and sometimes that means saying no to family and others. Just when you think things are going good something else unexpected pops up.  You are not alone. You just have to make the best of it in the meantime.