96 days in counting :-) Pregnancy blues

[keaij]

Im sorry I keep venting on here :-(

I feel like I have the baby blues, I am very happy my whole family has been super supportive and excited, even more than my daughter thats now 10. I just feel really bad because my daughter and her dad have a great relationship he loves her so much, but this guy that I now am pregnant by has been a nightmare.

I have honestly never met someone who goes bad and forth with decision so many times in all my life. One min you are the dad the next min your not. One min your wanting to be around and the next you dont.

I just pray I have the strength to deal with this person in child support court and visitation. I am really think this guy is bipolar. Now he admits to having a gf the whole time he had seen me and now says he planned to have 2 kids with her but now she had a miscarriage, but before he said he made her have an abortion.


I need God to not curse me with anymore bad men. I hope I can be blessed with a good man that will except me and my 2 kids. I feel like I just escaped hell and Im finally breathing air, and I feel so weak and tired. :-(

[brit_tany]

I agree with the ladies above i have mad bad choices on men to and i was blessed with 4 kids and now i have finally found my prince and he is wonderful when u stop looking and just work on urself ur prince will come and now i am expecting my 5 th child and with him he loves my kids and me and o wouldnt change him for nothing he has been here every step of the way

[30ftm]

I couldn't agree more with kprince. I myself chose bad men to be with and the cycle kept repeating itself.  Until I took a break and thought about what I really wanted in a relationship.  I prayed and went to church and started dating different kind of men.  Now I have been blessed with a man who has really surprised me and been really supportive.  I didn't think has it in him. But he's truly been a blessing in my life.  We've had our ups and downs.  But that's part of life. I pray you will choose a good man in your future and you feel blessed.  You have 2 lil angels who will always love you.

[mzladylike_1988]

What a jacka$$. Once you have the baby you'll be able to emotional held him. Right now I say avoid contact with anyone who stresses you out. God will deal with him

[kprince2]

No prob. I know how it is. :-)

[keaij]

Thanks so much for that :-)

[kprince2]

Keep your head up sweets and dont let this guys get you down. Now I say this with the utmost respect-God did not curse you with bad men. You chose those men. At times God shows us things to help us along the way, whether we listen or not is our choice. We all make mistakes but we cant blame them on him. You cannot change the past but you can determine your future. Pray, be blessed and have faith. Ask him to help you and he shal. You have an angel in you right now that needs a strong mummy mind body and soul when he or she arrives and now while it grows. You can do it... :-)