Only reason i worry is cause its either me Or group home no one else willing to take him in not even his brother or sister whom are grown are well off due to their careers have family's of their own plus his parents have health issues are up in age. Just I love him so much and he deserves to be with someone accepting of him whom loves him understands him. Whenever that time comes. Try for the responses I do understand his fathers actions i can't control but I have control in my home of what happens just saddens me it comes down to me or a group home in the event of death
I work with children who have autism and agree completely with grizzlace. Children who have high functioning autism (where they have language skills to communicate effectively) are best treated like everyone else and are certainly capable of learning appropriate behaviours. They may need clearer instructions on appropriate behaviors but they are able to behave just like any other child. Using rewards and clear consequences that are directly related to specific behaviors is the best way for them to learn.If you do this you will set them up for success in the future. Just remember that it is near impossible for you to control his fathers parenting style but you can control what happens in your household. Good luck!
You may love him very much but that issue lies between him and his parents. You need to worry about your baby and if your cousin's father is going to act like a child, then you have no control over it. However, you may win the argument if it comes down to a court settlement. Keep your head up. I also have a cousin who is autistic... his parents treat him no different than his siblings. He is smart, i'm assuming your cousin is too.