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7463033 tn?1399311106

Over reacting ?

I try not to post stuff like this but I'm really at a loss && could use the advice of you ladies . My boyfriend graduates tonight from trade school && afterwards one of his classmates is having a cookout && most the guys in his class are older with wives && children so this isn't going to be some crazy party , its family oriented , however , my boyfriend doesn't want me to go . He never wants to take me to things like this && it hurts my feelings because he should want me by his side && to show me off . I've already explained to him how I felt && he isn't budging . His excuse is "I don't want to have to talk you && other people" I'm sorry but this doesn't make sense . . I wouldn't go to this cookout && be stuck up his *** , I'm outgoing && talk to everybody && he knows this . . Any advice or am I just over reacting && let him go alone ?
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8216878 tn?1403882912
Hes hiding something. Before i was w my man or preg I went to his moms funeral w him everyone kept calling me his gf he didnt correct one person. So if he isnt proud saying o were expecting somethings ups. Either another woman or friend or something.
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There has to be another reason. If he doesnt want to talk with you or include you in his events, why is he with you?
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Youre not overreacting.  Id be so mad. Id probably pack my stuff and go somewhere for a few nightsm
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Haha, my phone said birch,.I'm assuming you all know what I meant.  :-)
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It don't sound right to me.. I say follow his @$$!
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Maybe I'm just a birch but if it were me, I would go anyway. Or demands to go. I would want to see what he is hiding,.our if he us being genuine about his feelings... My husband always takes me to things, even if I don't want to go... Had since we have been together. But if he didn't I would be his stalker, lol.
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Yeah, I would definitely think he was up to something. He should want to show you off, not keep you hidden. I'd be furious if my husband did that to me.
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7358510 tn?1427032173
I would feel so hurt and unattractive if my partner did that to me....it is abit funky huh.
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I agree with both of you ladies. Hun he def sounds like he's hiding something. That would **** me off!
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8101930 tn?1420001456
I would be a little upset.  Why wouldn't he want to bring you with him.  To show you off and to introduce you to everyone.  I Would be a little suspicious that he is hiding something or someone from you.. That's just what I would think though, that might not be the case.  
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I'd personally be furious. And id assume he was either lieng about where he is going or up to no good. That's just me I'd def. Be questioning that BC he should want you to share that with him since there will be other wives there etc... I just Would be very Leary of him that's a really bad excuse he has given you also.
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